For those who are seriously considering dating and marriage with a Japanese partner,
we work together with our members toward formal relationships within six months,
and successful marriage within one year.
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Differences in language and culture… With a sincere mindset toward your future with a potential partner, and the support of you&I, it is possible. you&I arranges ongoing one-on-one meetings at least once a month.
When you set a goal and take action, it becomes reality. Marriage is the same. Why not work with you&I to go beyond differences in culture and language, and begin a new second chapter of your life? We provide tailored plans and support that match each member’s individual challenges.
you&I has a structured support system in place. You can receive information on partner discounts for wedding venues, wedding rings, dresses/tuxedos, honeymoons, esthetic services, and real estate in Japan. Upon submission of wedding photos or a marriage registration certificate, we provide a congratulatory gift of 30,000 yen.
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※「you&i 日本居住者プラン」は、日本にご住所があり、かつJLPT N1以上、またはそれと同等の日本語能力をお持ちの方のみお選びいただけます。
1
One-on-one consultation
First, through a free online consultation, we discuss in detail your expectations and concerns regarding the introduction of potential partners and your activities, and together we explore the most suitable approach for your journey.
2
Profile creation
Based on the consultation, we select the most suitable plan.
After joining, the profile is created together with the consultation office, with full support to ensure that your appeal is conveyed in a natural and effective way.
*Required documents for membership application:
☐ Identity verification document (driver’s license, health insurance card, or passport)
☐ Education certificate (copy of diploma or graduation certificate)
☐ Income verification document (payslip, tax return, income certificate, etc.)
☐ Certificate of marital status (issued within the last 3 months)
☐ Profile photo (taken within the last 6 months)
3
Matchmaking application
Based on the marriage agency’s database in Japan, we can arrange matches with the most suitable candidates.
If there is someone you would like to speak with, you may directly apply for an introduction (omiai).
4
Matchmaking (omiai)
Meetings are conducted either online or in person.
If necessary, a consultant will be present to support smooth communication and provide interpretation assistance.
5
Start of dating / Relationship begins
After the matchmaking meeting, if both parties express a desire to meet again, the relationship begins.
In cases where cultural differences may lead to conflicts, our consultant provides close support and assistance throughout the process.
6
Serious relationship (shinken kōsai / formal courtship)
Before marriage, both parties coordinate practical matters such as their views on marriage and place of residence, and proceed into a relationship based on the intention of marriage.
7
Successful marriage conclusion
Congratulations on the beginning of a new life together!
Once both parties confirm their intention to marry, the process proceeds to “successful marriage withdrawal” (withdrawal upon marriage).
Members who achieve marriage are provided with various benefits covering everything from wedding preparation to newlywed life.
In addition, upon submission of wedding photos or a marriage registration certificate, we provide a congratulatory gift of 30,000 yen.
If your annual income is 5 million yen or more, it generally does not significantly affect your activities.
The criteria are a formal proposal and mutual agreement between both parties regarding their intention to marry.
There are no additional fees other than penalties related to the consultation office’s rules during matchmaking or dating (such as manners or breach of agreements).
